Death or Divorce?

I have suffered both: the deaths of both parents, and a very painful divorce. Which is worse?     Although I miss my parents every minute of every day, I believe my divorce was and is much worse.     My dad died suddenly. We had known he was sick, and even suspected the dreaded READ MORE

Secrets are Never good

Secrets in a marriage are never good. No matter how innocent you think they are, your spouse does not feel the same.   I remember while going through my divorce, I was dragged out to dinner with my sister and her husband (at this point I pretty much wanted to crawl in a hole and READ MORE