Parenting adult children is difficult enough, but add into the mix a divorce and things really get hard. Parenting in all cases is not an easy thing. We worry about doing what is best for our children, providing for their needs and wants, and raising successful members of society. And I did my share of READ MORE
Tag: narcissist
He Texts, So What!
Why this many years later and this far into it does he still do stupid stuff? The simple fact that I am writing this bothers me even more than the event that prompted this writing. The fact that I even give this much thought to anything about that man just burns me up. Per our READ MORE
That’s MINE
If you have been through a divorce or are going through one now, you have had to or will have to do some sort of division of assets. This is one of the hardest things I encountered (up to that point, anyway.Sharing my children is way harder). Deciding who gets what, houses, cars, dishes, pictures, READ MORE
Why am I Responsible for That?
It took me a long time to ask myself that, and even longer to figure out or admit that I was not the responsible party. When my husband first left, he didn’t see the kids for a couple of weeks. Part of that was due to my not letting him. To explain myself a READ MORE
Well Documented?
Are you well-documented? Funny question? Not so much when you are in a bind and wish you had proof, something in writing. Someone shared with me, and I will share with you: document everything. Keep copies of everything. Keep a journal. As painful as it may be, you might one day need it. READ MORE
