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That's MINE

That’s MINE

Posted on February 19, 2019October 6, 2018 by Donna

If you have been through a divorce or are going through one now, you have had to or will have to do some sort of division of assets. This is one of the hardest things I encountered (up to that point, anyway.Sharing my children is way harder). Deciding who gets what, houses, cars, dishes, pictures, READ MORE

Tagged all mine, battle, court, depression, division of assets, Divorce, narcissist
Why am I Responsible for That?

Why am I Responsible for That?

Posted on January 8, 2019October 6, 2018 by Donna

It took me a long time to ask myself that, and even longer to figure out or admit that I was not the responsible party.   When my husband first left, he didn’t see the kids for a couple of weeks. Part of that was due to my not letting him. To explain myself a READ MORE

Tagged coparenting, Divorce, narcissist, responsibility
Well Documented?

Well Documented?

Posted on November 20, 2018October 6, 2018 by Donna

Are you well-documented?   Funny question? Not so much when you are in a bind and wish you had proof, something in writing.   Someone shared with me, and I will share with you: document everything. Keep copies of everything. Keep a journal. As painful as it may be, you might one day need it. READ MORE

Tagged abuse, coparenting, court, depression, Divorce, documentation, narcissist, neglect, surviving
Control

Control

Posted on September 27, 2018October 4, 2018 by Donna

Control. Good ? Bad? What is control? When you are a woman married to or divorced from a narcissistic man, it is bad. It is painful. It is sometimes hard to see. I spent 24 years married to a man that I was in love with that I never thought was controlling. But looking back READ MORE

Tagged abuse, anger, depression, Divorce, narcissist, support

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  1. Get Out of That Pit by Beth Moore
  2. How to Let God Help You Through Hard Times
  3. My Ex is Driving Me Crazy  by Aleta Koman
  4. Surviving Separation and Divorce by Loriann Hoff Oberlin
  5. Love Must Be Tough by Dr James Dobson
  6. Eat Pray Love  by Elizabeth Gilbert
  7. How Can I Forgive You by Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD

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  1. Forgiveness by Matthew West
  2. Overcomer by Mandisa
  3. Hello my name is  by Matthew West
  4. Whatever You’re Doing  by Sanctus Real

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Disclaimer

There are two sides to every story…during my divorce there were two sides: his side, and the right side!

And now seven years later, there is just my side. Please remember what I write is my own personal experience, my feelings, my emotions. I talk about what I went through, how I dealt with it, and what I thought. I have no degree in psychology or psychiatry; I am not a counselor or an attorney.

If you ask five people what they have just read, you will get five different answers. Whether we are an active participant or a bystander, no two views are the same.

Therefore, if you meet my ex, his view will be totally different than what I write. He, like the rest of us, changed over time. Good or bad, depends on who you ask. I pray that my life changes are not only good for me, but for those I love.

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